Aimee Bender Quotes

Aimee Bender is an American writer known for her imaginative and magical realist novels and short stories. Her works, such as "The Particular Sadness of Lemon Cake" and "An Invisible Sign of My Own," explore themes of identity, relationships, and the fantastical. Bender's unique storytelling style has made her a respected figure in contemporary literature.

I like birthday cake. It's so symbolic. It's a tempting symbol to load with something more complicated than just 'Happy birthday!' because it's this emblem of childhood and a happy day.

I love all the arts - so museums, theatre, music, walks near trees or by the ocean, time with people, psychological readings.

As a kid, I often figured it was good to be patien... -Aimee Bender

As a kid, I often figured it was good to be patient to a fault.

For me as a person, friendships are incredibly important to me, but in writing, they can distract me.

Some creative writing programs seem evil, but my experience at Irvine was totally the opposite, where I feel like they were really good at focusing in on each writers voice and setting. When I felt like I was obligated to write a story that was more typical, no one really liked it.

There's a spectrum of those moments of connection and the moments we fail to connect, going from super-large successes to failures. Success would be love, I guess, and failure could still be love, but the bad side; and loss.

I liked Hans Christian Andersen because the tales ... -Aimee Bender

I liked Hans Christian Andersen because the tales were so dark and tragic.

I noticed, when I taught elementary school, how true the squeaky wheel thing is, and how endearing squeaky wheels can be! Because when you're being a squeaky wheel, you're also really letting people know who you are.

When language is treated beautifully and interestingly, it can feel good for the body: It's nourishing; it's rejuvenating.

Writing can be a frightening, distressing business, and whatever kind of structure or buffer is available can help a lot.

Language is the ticket to plot and character, afte... -Aimee Bender

Language is the ticket to plot and character, after all, because both are built out of language.

I have trouble describing my own style, since it's sort of like describing my own eye color or something.

At readings, audience members sometimes ask if I keep writing past the two hours if I'm on a roll, but I don't. I figure that if I'm on a roll, it's partially because I know I'm about to stop.

Novels are so much unrulier and more stressful to write. A short story can last two pages and then it's over, and that's kind of a relief. I really like balancing the two.

As a kid, I liked making up stories, and I wrote a story about a kangaroo and a bat with Christy Chang, and she went on to become a surgeon.

I don't eschew autobiographical writing, but I'm not interested in mine to be so straightforward. The things that tend to move me the most are often those that I have to figure out its meaning for myself. The human being's ability to make a metaphor to describe a human experience is just really cool.

I think teaching keeps me honest because if I'm up in front of a class talking about what I think is important about fiction while knowing I myself have just failed to do that hours earlier at my computer - it's a good and humbling reminder.

I like the idea of a place that is dealing with painful, messy, frightening, and very human events that is also so beautiful and ethereal.

I really like feeling connected to people and feel... -Aimee Bender

I really like feeling connected to people and feeling like I have a good, solid sense of empathy.

In terms of foods for me, I think I have more of the usual associations - foods from childhood that I associate with care and love, from relatives or special restaurants like the kind elderly man who dusted seasoning salt on French fries at the corner burger joint.

I love food. I'm not a great cook, but I love to c... -Aimee Bender

I love food. I'm not a great cook, but I love to cook, and I like how different it is from writing.

Generally, I think most of my writing tends to have some kind of magical element to it. That's the way I can access the emotional life of the character.

I'm obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s. It's such a fraught and exciting and kind of horrible time.

I get a little myopic in the act of doing any writing. I think I'm not as interested or not as able to write about balance, because I think there's something I want to try to get at. I'm trying to get at something about the experience of growing up or about families.

I did plays in college, and I have half of a play. But I'm kind of stuck. I keep revisiting it so maybe it will move somewhere. There's something about plays where you can feel that sense of artifice at any moment.

I write on a very strict 2-hour-a-day schedule, and I really respond to structure and invented rules. So even if I'm finding out good information on a character, I will stop when I'm set to stop.

Granted, I'm someone who loves words. I've always ... -Aimee Bender

Granted, I'm someone who loves words. I've always loved poetry - so it's suited to me.

For me, even in my first book, the pleasures of writing anything magical is that it has to be physical. It has to be grounded and very much in this world. Then, I get to play with all the consequences of this new thing.

Large meadows are lovely for picnics and romping, but they are for the lighter feelings. Meadows do not make me want to write.

I find I can write for two lines, and then I have nothing else to say. For me, the only way to find something comes through the sentence level and sticking with the sentences that give a subtle feeling that there's something more to say.

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